Once the stigma and preconceptions are removed, people always find something interesting and view it more positively.
This isn't to say that you can only attract a guy if you look good.
So I think gay dating sites are better for that, but at the same time, if I wanted to meet people on my own, then I could go to gay bars and meet people there.
However, Tokyo and Ibaraki each have their own anti-discrimination laws in place.
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Thus, poems such as and other may be read as either heterosexual or homosexual, or neutral in that regard, depending on the reader's desire.