The only difference was that this time it came from a place of experience and wisdom, rather than a place of hope and naivety.
Meanwhile Indra, who did make some measure of apology though still stopping short of actually saying the words, but at least acknowledging her part in all of it , gets to live, and hopefully at some point during the eternal beach party she will actually say the words to properly apologize to Octavia.
So with that elephant in the room, their relationship could only ever remain unequal.